YOUNG GENERATION PROBLEMS

Young generation is always considered as an asset of a country and a family s well. They are future builders and present representatives. Whether it is a matter of a family, parents adore their young children; they dream a lot of fulfilling all what they could not achieve in their young age. They try their best to make them happy just to get happiness from them in their old age. A part from a family if I talk on a broader level, youth is the sole representative of their society and country, their character, education, hard work, everything they do on a small scale or large one they depict their upbringing.

When I was in school, I used to hear a statement from teacher for ill-mannered children was, “does this kind of behavior you have learnt from your parents”.

I realized whatever we do we represent what we have learn from our family, and internationally what we do we represent our cultural values and country’s youth.

Globally, our youth; except few ones, is going nowhere. A very few young ones not only from western society but from eastern as well, are wonders. They are doing their best and making their names prominent , later we’ll discuss how they are doing so but, for now If anybody could give me the genuine reason for our youth’s destruction( practically, morally or spiritually). I can make a list of 100 reasons but what is the root of those reasons?

Suicide attempts, breakups, unhealthy relationships, financial problems, unpolished character, what is the motive behind all this.

TRAP OF SOCIAL MEDIA:                                                                                                                     

I am not against the use of social media app, in fact there is no doubt, it is making huge impacts on our young generation, without counting the numeration of positive and negative facts.

Social media promotes everything with a lot of eye catching embellishment, 60 to 80 % young people easily get trapped without checking its authenticity. For example we make friend on social media, except our close ones we don’t  know rest of the friend list is 100% true, girls pretend to be boys and vice versa.

We follow pages, and there is no such proof of their originality. Ok I f I leave it, liking upcoming feeds continuously, writing comments, posting useless posts, does this is the only healthy habit left in our lives.

We think ourselves popular and behave like we have conquered the world just if we get 100k likes, or 200k share on our post.  There is a lot more problems in this world bigger than your selfies beauty, your current status and useless jokes. Grow up bigger, do post, do like but what makes a sense, what is useful for you and for others, think broader above being liked and shared.

UNCERTAINTY OF MINDS:

Planning is a part of life, but we ought to do accordingly what life brings in front of us. Life is unpredictable, it is not necessary everything will happen as it is what we have planned. But uncertainty of life does not overdo uncertainty of mind.

Basically, we have stop brain storming; it is very easy for us to follow others rather than creating our own ways. These unenterprising behaviors have jammed our thinking abilities. We have no bog goals for or life to be followed and to be worked on, just because our mind has stopped producing new ideas. We are uncertain not only about our future but our goals as well. Stop nagging doubts, accept reality of your life and make certain goals, take determined decision and work consistently.

 SHORT TAMPERED AND HASTY:

Loud music and fast growing technology have made our youth short tampered and hasty. Even my mom says today’s generation is produced by technology wherefore they act like it. I do accept this statement because, even my 3 years old son is short tampered that sometimes he makes me speechless.

Hastiness has blocked our true abilities; we have stopped polishing ourselves, to get everything earlier then its time. In movie ki and ka, what he says, you are fast-fast, eat fast-fast, work fast-fast, speak fast-fast, same like that our new generation is fast- fast loving. Practice self-control and avoid hastiness (jaldbazi).

VANISHING HUMANITY:

Materialistic society, machined oriented lives have vanished humanity from us.  Love letters, surprise visits, small gifts, a little smile every small act of happiness has replaced with video call, chat, wishing on social media, once in a year visit to loved once.

We are so busy in our lives that don’t even bother to think , might be our parents are hungry at homes waiting to have dinner with us, choosing life partner is not bad, but a little assurance from parents still matters, while traveling putting head phones on ears we don’t hear or even see, might an old man, a pregnant lady need a seat to sit. On a road accident, or a place of humiliation it is much appreciable for us to make videos and pictures rather than helping someone. Keep at least a small amount of humanity inside you so in the eye of God you don’t get out of the list of humans.

DEPRESSION :

In spite of finding solution of problems and finding ways to get out of the situation, we become depressed and lose our enthusiasm.  We have started expecting a lot from world and on very first rejection we collapse easily, hardly we try to stand up again. We try to neglect the bitterness of failure and avoid facing rejections. This kind of emotional weakness will never let us to grow bigger, and shine bright.

Balance your will power and maintain determination to achieve what you want from your life. 

IGNORANT PARENTS:

I cannot totally blame our youth for all this mishap and blundered life. Parents do share a part for this situation. Busy life style, double duty, luxurious life and leaving children behind in the hands of caretakers, every little act of ignorance of parents is contributing in the destructive personality of youth. They have not only stop keeping an eye on their activities but, have even stop advising them and solving their problems.

Parents can easily up bring a strong character, well groomed child as it is said.

“RAISING A CIVILIZE D CHILD TAKES 20 YEARS OF CONSTANT TEACHING AND ANOTHER 10 OF REVIEW”

                                                                                               (JUDITH MARTIN)