LIVE THE WAY YOU WANT

Getting into a relationship is very easy but maintaining it smoothly and living happily with is a lifetime task. Marriage is the most beautiful relationship between two souls and among two families. It provides you support,relaxation, love and condolence through thick and thin. Now a days broken marriages and brake ups have become part of our lives. Being in a hurting, bothersome and distressful relation is not easy, but if there is a margin of revival and restore then it is much better to go with the option of another chance. Because, the after effects and consequences are worst. Today i m going to tell you how you can renew and give another chance to your relationship if there is a margin.     REEVALUATE THE CAUSE: No matter you are at home or if you wanna go outside, sit alone and think about every reason, which is causing fights, anger, arguments, disagreement, depression etc. Be honest and do count your faults as well. Figure out the main reason, the root of ever...

                                                    My son will turn 3 years old in November and   I decided to enroll him in school so that he would get to know how to learn, read and write,   would easily accept to live among others, will try to make new friends. It will also help me as my next baby is due in October.  Before that I want to shortly brief the bonding between us. His father worked three years out of the country; even he was not there on the day he born, not on his first birthday. I was living with in laws and during those three years without my husband I was like fish out of water.   But by the day my son born I was flying high, I started talking to him even when he was in my womb...

When you  live i n along distance relationship it gets very difficult to maintain its charm and beauty. Sometimes it becomes very difficult to sustain that relationship, negative thoughts prevails over your mind, and ultimately you got fed up and try to give it an end. But there are ways and solution that can help you to make your long distance relationship reliable and long lasting. Breakup is no the ONLY solution of every relational problem . Few easy steps towards betterment of your relation can help alot. TRUST EACH OTHER As i always say trust is the core of your relationship. Try always to have trust on your partner and along with that make it possible not to break his trust as well. In a long distance relationship when your partner is not able to watch the real scenario it is very common to suspect and get confused when there are many other people to make false statement. Make your trust 100% unbreakable. FREQUENT COMMUNICATION If you are having al...

Everybody wants to live in a happy married life but it is not easy to maintain and sustain that happiness always. If you want to strengthen your marriage then ask these question from yourself and make improvements where it is needed. Q 1: Do you trust your partner? Trust is the base of your marriage. if you have broken the trust of your partner then it needs to be build up. Do you completely trust your partner or suspect him/her. Can he/she do use money and go with friends without fearing of your anger? Check and mend your broken trust.  Q 2: Who are you when you are with your partner? Do you feel mostly  happy when you are with your partner? Your relationship should enable you to be authentic and a beautiful version of yourself. If you are not happy standing along with your partner then something needs to change.  Q 3: Do both of you feel secure with each other? Do you or your partner in situations of embarrassment in front of large group fee...

My journey towards life: Naturally i am optimistic and positive thinker and like many other girls i also dream a lot about fancy life with no worries and no regrets. But life is a teacher, who is always there to examine you that how much you are realistic and positive towards sudden incidents.  My life has not been that much interested and fascinated but there are a lot of lesson that i have learned yet. I want to share those things with everybody just to enhance the aspect of learning from life.        Parents are the most rare relation: Being parent is a bit easy for every man and woman but to embrace parenthood is very rare in today's parents. Bring up children physically and to provide them daily necessities is not the only and one responsibility of parents but to raise them with humanity and to teach them the real lessons of life is their original responsibility. Me and my sisters had been lucky in this case, we are six sisters and have ...

Now a days everybody is in hurry to get on and detrude others for own sake. In this rackety and up-roaring situation we are not only emotionally loosing our blood relations but humanity is also vanishing from our souls.Its powerful evidence is existence of Old Age Homes and Orphans' Asylums. If the most powerful relation can face humiliation up-to this utmost point then what else could happen to other relation that can only be contemplated. Few attempts and slight behavioral changes can make this relation strong. So that in old age our child wont treat us as burden and for upcoming generations it would be easy to get time and love from their parents. Because today's kids are tomorrow's parents .                 GIVE TIME TO EACH OTHER : Time is the most precious gift we can give to anybody because it cannot be rewind. Parents make excuse that they don't have time for their kids because of busy schedule.  No matter how busy you are take out s...

Being in a married relationship foe 3 years i have learnt a lot of  things that can help us to make our relationship sustainable and understood a lot of fault that can easily destroy a strong  relationship.  Commitment is something which is made while signing the contract of marriage, so its a responsibility of both partners to work on that commitment to make their relationship long lasting. Because life is given once , why to spoil it  with random useless causes and its childish to make mountain out of a mole hill. I am not an expert but what i learned from my marital relationship i want to just discuss that much. BEGINNING OF NEW LIFE: For a girl who leaves behind her parents, siblings and a wonderful flighty lifestyle for a man, its not easy to get adjust immediately in a whole new family, with new rules, new customs and even a fully different environment. It take time to understand new people with new mi...

The most precious gift "MY SON" i have received from ALLAH in three  years of married life. Being a woman for me and for every woman her children are her treasure. For fathers kids are their asset. We all want to provide them better necessities and luxuries they want, just because we wish them to take care of us in old age. In the age of losing memory and being childish we just want that treasure to be shined and asset to be profited, nothing else we parents want.  In that case it is our major responsibility to bring them up not 100%, but 80 to 90% perfectly complete. Here i am going to elaborate few reasons that result in personality disorder and and their precaution to prevent major flaws. IGNORER V/S AFFECTIONATE:: In this busy world mostly both mother and father earn for the family. Intentionally they do this for kids betterment but, unintentionally it results in ignorance towards kids. They left them on the responsibility of governess or care...