LIFE'S JOURNEY
Naturally i am optimistic and positive thinker and like many other girls i also dream a lot about fancy life with no worries and no regrets. But life is a teacher, who is always there to examine you that how much you are realistic and positive towards sudden incidents.
My life has not been that much interested and fascinated but there are a lot of lesson that i have learned yet. I want to share those things with everybody just to enhance the aspect of learning from life.
Parents are the most rare relation:
Being parent is a bit easy for every man and woman but to embrace parenthood is very rare in today's parents. Bring up children physically and to provide them daily necessities is not the only and one responsibility of parents but to raise them with humanity and to teach them the real lessons of life is their original responsibility.
Me and my sisters had been lucky in this case, we are six sisters and have one brother, the younger one in all. My father had to be out of city because of job and my mother has raised all of us like a single mom. She made us strong enough to fight with our problems alone and so humble to live in other's heart as well. After shifting in job city of my father. He allowed us to travel alone and to achieve what we want to get in our life but with just that statement
"dear! Always do whatever you want but, make sure your any act don't abash me"
This statement always control us to cross our limits and to force us to protect and let others to respect our dignity. What parents can easily teach you and, what you can humbly learn from them is not available to everybody in this bitter world. So give them due respect and let them love you unconditionally.
SISTERS ARE BLESSING:
I have 5 sisters, and my number is 4th one. being in center mostly it is said that, center child don't get attention like 1st one and the last one. but fortunately i was always specially treated just because i m outspoken.
Well all 60% credit of bonding among all of us goes to our elder sister. She has always been so loving and caring that we call her our second mother. Even after marriage my and her in laws are very near, so i never felt that i m living without my mom, whenever i am in difficulty she is always there for me.
We all sisters share each and everything with one another. We give suggestion, even after marriage of 5 sisters we still fight like kids, we care, we make fun and ALHAMDULILAH we don't need worldly people to make us happy and bonded.
NO ONE PROTECTS LIKE BROTHER:
Hassan is our brother the 7th child and younger among all of us.
He is always extra cared and protected because of bing the only ONE. We always wished to have a brother like others and we got one after prayers. He is adult now and a college student. I wish for him many a success, and blessed life
LIFE WITH NIECES AND NEPHEWS:
6 sisters mean a lot of nieces and nephews, i have ALHAMDULILAH 6 nieces and 3 nephews excluding my kids(lol).
Our kids have not only made strongest our relation but our relation with their grand parents as well. They all are smart naughty, but we never fight because of them, however we fight for them.
I love them all.
LIFE AFTER MARRIAGE:Life is heaven after marriage if, your life partner is loving, caring and cooperative. Fortunately i m blessed with world's best Husband. He is the one who understands me completely, he is the only one who bears my anger all the time. I m pregnant now a days and he treats me like a kid. He cares for me. Some time it do injustice with him when he has to bear my anger and i refuse to do so. I love him a lot and i want to have him always whenever i get life here or hereafter.
MY LITTLE MUNCHKIN:
My love, my life, my everything, my son MUHAMMAD ABDULLAH.
I am nothing without him, when he calls me mama it feels like, i m in heaven. He is the one who is purely mine. he is naughty, even when someone calls my name he calls my name, when someone calls me Khala he calls me Khala.
My second mother, my younger sister says that, she owns him, he is her kid i should have another one for me .
Well life being mother does not make you blessed, it puts a lot of responsibility on you shoulders to bring up perfectly the upcoming generation. May ALLAH give me strength to fulfill my responsibilities perfectly. Aameen
IN SHORT, I HAVE BEEN BLESSED WITH BEAUTIFUL LIFE AND COLORFUL RELATIONS. I LOVE THEM AND THEY ALL LOVE ME A LOT.
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