PUBLIC SPEAKING SKILLS

Everyone has a fear, that dominate his personality and refel him back to flourish. In today's progressing world and arena of competition, everyone wants to run fast and achieve his goals. But it is not that much easy to compete everybody in this world, you must possess extra ordinary qualities to make your own distinguished name.
 Every human in this world possess a quality that thrusts himself into attention. Qualities do not work their selves, they need to be worked and polished and for that a person needs confidence, confidence in his qualities, confidence of speaking among public etc.
Public speaking is a common fear among all of us few fear it less and mostly all of fear a lot to speak publicly.
From my personal experience if i tell you i also had this fear but get rid of it , no matter how hard it was for me to do so but i managed to do it. 
What i learn and how i suppress it back i want to share it with you as well.

SELF CONFIDENCE:
 Self confidence is what that make you shine in society. Having confidence that you can do what you want is the core of your success. If you are not excelling in you goals then at least don't despair. Pump up your confidence level at your own, when you will learn "at your own"how to raise self confidence then you will not in need of somebody else to motivate you.

PREPARATIONS:
We all get prepared whether to attend a party or host an evening, Public speaking also demands a well prepared person. If it is presentation to present or a speech to make. Get yourself well prepared. A FLAWLESS presentation, mistake less speech will not only boost your confidence up but will leave a memorable impact.

PRACTICE BEFORE ACTUAL ACTION:
"PRACTICE MAKES A MAN PERFECT" this is not said without any reason. whether you want to excel in something or its a matter of public speaking. Practice will not only make you aware of your mistakes, it will also make your task strong enough to be presented without hesitation. Practice it in front of your peers, family members or even in front of your partner. They will help you out if their would be any room for improvement.

PERFECT BODY LANGUAGE:
Before your presentation, or the time before your turn comes up, Keep a SOFT SMILE on your face and make your nerves relax as much possible. Don't try to repeat your ideas continuously in your mind that will disturb your concentration and interaction.  
Now if you are sitting then SIT UP STRAIGHT What i love while speaking publicly if i am sitting, i love to sit straight but a little bent forward. It gives me a feeling that i am having a casual talk with my audience , but in case you are speaking in front of a very high professional audience then it is better to sit up straight.
While speaking behind a podium then keep your elbows resting on it, while STANDING FIRM.If your legs or hands are shaking ignore them, the more you will focus on them, more you will shake,AVOID YOUR NERVOUSNESS.

CONTACT WITH AUDIENCE:
While speaking publicly, people love to hear those, who are dare to make EYE CONTACT, rather then aperson who reads from his paper and give a are look to his audience. Even if you have not memorized you speech fully, even then try to give frequent looks. 
TONE OF YOUR LANGUAGE also makes an impression, you should be prepared of when to speak in high and when to speak in low tone. you should know on what lines you have to emphasize and on what you should speak like a friend.
HANDS MOVEMENT are also important. Move your hands according to what you are speaking , i would not recommend continuous moving but a considerable hands movement will show your full preparations and higher confidence level. 

CROSS QUESTIONING:
In many sittings cross questioning is the part of speeches and presentation, Ask suggestions from your audience about anything that will keep them interacted with you.
In case you have to give an answer then suddenly don't stumble. stay relaxed, start with a smile, take few seconds and provide the most appropriate answer you know. In hurry you are most likely to make mistake, avoid that, and keep yourself and your tone relaxed. No matter if your audience is not fully satisfied with your answer, the way you answer their question should be much more striking.

POSITIVE ATTITUDE:
Before and after your public speaking keep your mind and thinking on positive nodes. No matter who is in front of you, no matter what the result wold be. Success is what you think of given opportunity and what you make of it, it is not what is put in front of you.. Give your best and forget the rest.

CONCLUSION:
There are a lot of books on public speaking skills, and a lot of motivators, but THE REAL MOTIVATOR LIES INSIDE YOU. Don't rely on others do your best rest will be your destiny