BONDING BETWEEN PARENTS AND THEIR KIDS

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Now a days everybody is in hurry to get on and detrude others for own sake. In this rackety and up-roaring situation we are not only emotionally loosing our blood relations but humanity is also vanishing from our souls.Its powerful evidence is existence of Old Age Homes and Orphans' Asylums. If the most powerful relation can face humiliation up-to this utmost point then what else could happen to other relation that can only be contemplated.
Few attempts and slight behavioral changes can make this relation strong. So that in old age our child wont treat us as burden and for upcoming generations it would be easy to get time and love from their parents. Because today's kids are tomorrow's parents.
               GIVE TIME TO EACH OTHER:
Time is the most precious gift we can give to anybody because it cannot be rewind.
Parents make excuse that they don't have time for their kids because of busy schedule.  No matter how busy you are take out some time to spend with your kids, not at the time of eating or watching screens, but specially half or 1 hour to play , talk or listen to your kids. In return they will surely give you time when they would be too busy in future.
                   
For children they make excuses that due to their busy entertaining life they do not have time to spend and listen lectures of their parents. Actually the problem is ATTACHMENT , the more time you will spend with your parents, faster you will attach to them emotionally.                                

INTERPERSONAL DISCUSSION:
Parents are not only our guardian but they are our guiders also. Discussing your problems in a friendly way with your parents will not only release your tension but will also give you wise suggestions. Might be in few situations you get frighted with their reaction but if you will discuss it with sincerity they will surely understand your problem.

From parents point of view, it is natural that they cannot put burden of their big problems on the small shoulders of their innocent kids. But from early age parents should not hide everything from their kids, problem should surely be discuss with them in simplest and easy way. if  in childhood they will accept your helplessness, then it would be easy for them to understand your problems in future.
GET WISE TO EACH OTHER:
Its parents responsibility to get up to dated and aware of their child's activities, problems, friends and daily routine. That does not mean to resist them from doing their love activities, it only means to take immediate action when they indulge in wrong activities, or they got stuck in some problem.
 Children should also try to get wise up to their parents health, problems and needs. even if they cannot solve their issues but it will be a greater relief for parents that, at least their kids do care of them. It might save them from depression and anxiety.
FORGIVENESS AND ACCEPTANCE:
Children are bound to make mistakes because they are not aware of the hardness of life. But scolding or punishing them on mistakes is not the better idea. They should be humbly tackled. Otherwise they will not only stop sharing their problems with you , moreover they will start hiding everything from you. try to be patient and not only help them to solve their problem but give them an other chance as well to learn , how not to make mistakes.
 
Children have to accept this reality that in faster growing economy and technologies, their are 100 or above new things our parents don't know about or they have not use them. So its natural for them to ask questions and suspect, so don't get cranky or furious, explain them in detail ,when they will understand, why would they even try to resist you. Accept the generation and technology gape between them.
FINANCE THE MAJOR ISSUE:
Its parents responsibility to make their kids aware of financial problems and how to effectively manage their finances. From childhood making kids used to of luxuries and unnecessary use of money will suffer both of you in future. teach them contentment.
When they become adults, give them smaller responsibilities of raising finance. Mae them physically responsible. Even the habit of SAVING MONEY will also improve their financial mindset.
Whereas parents should make sure to fulfill their kids necessities, no matter how short your budget is if you have not teach them to save and earn then they wont understand, and would demand for everything. SO please start your efforts from very early stage.

THE WAY YOU UPBRING YOUR CHILD WILL ULTIMATELY HIS ONLY WAY TO TREAT YOU AND UPBRING NEW GENERATION.
STRONG RELATIONS ARE DEVELOPED WITH TIME AND TRUST. 
GIVE IT IN YOUR BEST WAY TO YOUR LOVED ONCE.









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