GOOD SPOUSE MAKES OUR LIFE HEAVEN

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Being in a married relationship foe 3 years i have learnt a lot of  things that can help us to make our relationship sustainable and understood a lot of fault that can easily destroy a strong  relationship.
 Commitment is something which is made while signing the contract of marriage, so its a responsibility of both partners to work on that commitment to make their relationship long lasting. Because life is given once , why to spoil it  with random useless causes and its childish to make mountain out of a mole hill. I am not an expert but what i learned from my marital relationship i want to just discuss that much.
BEGINNING OF NEW LIFE:
For a girl who leaves behind her parents, siblings and a wonderful flighty lifestyle for a man, its not easy to get adjust immediately in a whole new family, with new rules, new customs and even a fully different environment. It take time to understand new people with new mindset. 
Husband for me, becomes a sandwich among family and his wife. Its not easy for him as well to be available equally for both sides. He has to be fully controlled and calm to tackle situations. What i suggest to wives, please as u know u cannot understand somebody in one day so, try to be patient, humble and friendly with a smiling face. Nobody likes to interact  a person with straight tone and stiff face.
For husbands, please trust your wife as much u can, it doesn't mean to let your parents saying go, try to provide your love to both of them.Husband works as a bridge between wife and his family's good relationship. Now here are few tips to be good 
spouse for your life partner.
Give space to each other:
Everybody need space to spend time with own self or with friends.
Marriage does not bound anybody to spend time only with your partner. Always try to give space and relaxation time to your partner, do not force him/her to spend all his/her time with you, It will not only cease the charm of your relationship but, will make your partner cranky as well.
Support each other more than others:
In hard times, whether you guys are facing financial crises or relationship conflicts, marital spouse always hopes for strong support from his partner. But when partner does not show support, the other one not losses his hopes but collapse madly.
Do not expect perfection:
Nobody is perfect in this world, and even any struggle of someone could not be perfect as well. So if you demand something from your partner don't expect perfection in that.
Trust is base of your relationship:
Every relation in this world develops on the basis of trust. But marital relation demands it more than any other relation. Don't provide chance to anybody or any situation to furnish conflict between you. Not only support but provide your fuller trust to your partner.
Forgiveness makes it stronger:
The err is human. No body is free of mistakes. whether a person does something wrong intentionally on unintentionally. One chance should surely be given. In case of misconception or mistake, try to be large minded and give him another chance. If he/she truly wants to make your relationship strong and sustainable, then he/she will try his/her best not to repeat that mistake.
AS SAID" WELL BEGUN IS HALF DONE"
so no further suggestion, keep it in your mind, to make your relationship strong, even your little bit effort will help it flourish.

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