JUDGE THE STRENGTH OF YOUR MARRIAGE
Everybody wants to live in a happy married life but it is not easy to maintain and sustain that happiness always. If you want to strengthen your marriage then ask these question from yourself and make improvements where it is needed.
Q 1: Do you trust your partner?
Trust is the base of your marriage. if you have broken the trust of your partner then it needs to be build up. Do you completely trust your partner or suspect him/her. Can he/she do use money and go with friends without fearing of your anger? Check and mend your broken trust.
Q 2: Who are you when you are with your partner?
Do you feel mostly happy when you are with your partner? Your relationship should enable you to be authentic and a beautiful version of yourself. If you are not happy standing along with your partner then something needs to change.
Q 3: Do both of you feel secure with each other?
Do you or your partner in situations of embarrassment in front of large group feel secure with each other? like he will not face any mishap while you are with him. if not then think why?
Q 4: As a couple, How do you handle hard times?
Are you able to support your partner in hard times of financial or relationships struggle? Talk and listen to each other and come up with a join strategy for moving together in same direction.
Q 5: Do you support each other?
Do you support your partner's goals and dreams? Do you encourage your partner to do things without you? Ensure your and support your partner while nurturing your own.
Q 6: Level of compatibility between you?
Everybody has different view about sex, religion, parenting or money. But are you constantly fight over same issues? Can you find a way to live easily with your partner's perspective?
Q 7: How do you resolve your conflicts?
Conflicts over money, time and many things are always there in a marriage but the main thing is how you guys handle those conflicts. Never adopt the strategies of storming out of house, staying silent or withdrawing sex.
NOW SEE. DOES YOUR RELATION NEEDS A BOOST OR IT IS ON BALANCE ROAD. MIGHT BE YOU HAVE MANY YEARS OF HAPPINESS AHEAD.
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